Pain doesn’t come from losing your soul mate. How many people actually feel seen?”~ Matthew Hussey 10. We want to feel like there is someone who actually sees us in the world. You will see a person who had all of her life ahead of her, a woman with so many possibilities, so many opportunities and choices. Perhaps you will be amazed that you spent any time at all focusing on your perceived flaws and failings instead of pursuing the things you wanted. “There will come a day, perhaps not far in the future, when you will look at pictures of yourself at the age you are now, and you’ll be shocked at how young and beautiful you were. Take advantage of the possibilities and choices you are presented with NOW. You lose that ridiculous idea that every interaction has two possible outcomes: approval or rejection.” 8. “Once you just get curious about people and places, you lose all that anxiety about approaching people. “If I could, I would tattoo this on your palm: Every interaction with another human being is a possible gateway to some new world or experience, which could, in turn, introduce you to the love of your life.” Every interaction with another human being could introduce you to the love of your life. Frightened to say what they feel in case others don’t feel the same, they adapt to fit in with everyone else.”~ Matthew Hussey 6. “Uncertain people are followers, looking to others for approval. Uncertain people are followers, looking to others for approval. Whatever happens, we become extraordinary, and the truth becomes clear: we don’t enter relationships hoping to create an amazing existence, we come to them to share one with someone else.” 5. With or without a person to share it with, we have a passionate, fun, exciting and emotionally fulfilling existence. When we have that, we ‘win’ no matter what happens in our love lives. “The best life is one in which we’re excited to wake up in the morning. The best life is one in which we?re excited to wake up in the morning. It’s the project of a lifetime.”~ Matthew Hussey 4. “Learning and practicing the art of creating rather than waiting throwing the net wide in order to meet a lot of people, men and women alike, who will enrich your life operating from a mindset of abundance, not scarcity developing and adhering to the attributes of a woman of high value upholding your own standards understanding that you are in control of your own choices-these skills strengthen your sense of self-worth and will improve all areas of your life. Strengthening your sense of self-worth is a project of a lifetime. “Having integrity is about knowing what your own standards are and being completely comfortable with them.” 3.

Having integrity is about knowing what your own standards are.

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